The Daily Halacha Moment - Lashon Hara And Asking For Mechila 🗣️
״כל השונה הלכות בכל יום - מובטח לו שהוא בן
העולם הבא״ (נידה עג ע״א, מגילה כח:)
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Question:
I spoke lashon Hara about my friend should I tell him that I spoke about him?
Answer:
If someone spoke disparagingly about another person, but that person is unaware of it, he should not reveal to that person that he did this to him. The reason is because if he would reveal it to him, it would probably upset or anger him. Instead, he should simply ask him to forgive him "for any wrongs he might have done to Him". [1] Likewise, if someone insults another person and that person is unaware of who perpetrated this wrong, it would be incorrect to come forward and identify himself as the perpetrator. That would certainly inflame the victim's anger. Therefore, he should not identify himself and instead he should simply ask him to forgive him "for any wrongs he might have done to him." This is what the pasuk refers to, saying ( Tehillim 32:1), "Fortunate is he who is forgiven for his crime and whose sins remains cloaked in secrecy."
Sources:
[1]. This is the famous Halachic disagreement between the Chofetz Chaim and Rav Yisrael Salanter. The Sefer Shalme Mo'ed p. 56 cites Rav Yisrael Salanter that one should not tell his friend that he spoke about him. Whereas the Chofetz Chaim ( Sefer Chafetz Chaim 4:12) writes that the sinner must reveal to the victim what he has done. The Halacha follows the opinion of Rav Yisrael Salanter as cited in Chazon Ovadia, Yamim Nora’im, p. 244 & Halichot Shelomo, p. 45.
See also Yalkut Yosef, English Edition, Yamim Nora’im, p. 308.
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